by Adam » Fri Apr 22, 2005 1:17 am
Let’s review this very topic, shall we?
Ash calls for a truce & considers leaving.
Bugsy agrees it tiring.
DeeJaySTYX agrees also (while professing a balanced appreciation of both Styx and DeYoung).
Swwskj philosophically advises patience.
Sadie’s ever the adult…(too bad her good-sense just hasn’t affected enough here)
styfanNH is philosophical and probably dead on with her suggestion that when Styx is in Europe things might simmer down ‘round here…and also makes a good point that what Froy seems to be doing is following the current Styx by protesting their every move.
gr8dane busts Froy (I ofcourse agree with his point)
onestilllearning manages to find the good (and the stupid) in us.
ek88 makes a good point that although Froy is redundant, no one’s forcing anyone to READ what he has to say.
Zan, ever the humorist, makes another hysterical crack about the imposing "Buddy Jesus".
Froy, probably the most blatant offender here, reacts by pronouncing anyone who doesn’t agree with him to be blind “followers” and vowing to never (ever) cease posting the way he does (self righteously insulting and arrogantly proclaiming as only Froy will)
Me? I agree that it’s all redundant, but as long as dumb statements are made & remade, I see reason to re-point out what’s dumb about it. And that’s boring.
Ultimately Froy pushes the originator of the topic, who called for a truce, to return an insult, thus dragging Ash into the very pit he began by criticizing.
I think I like classicstyxfan’s idea of calling each other when a line of acceptability or redundancy has been crossed. Perhaps posting a short phrase? Like reacting to “I never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever Get tired of it and never will” with a post that simply states “Your Record is Broken”…I dunno. That would require an atmosphere of cooperation (and THAT aint gonna happen).
My feeling is that there is a much better way to make a point than being offensive, negative and making self-important declarations of your opinions as fact.
And I believe that it takes a certain wisdom and probably intelligence to find the tolerance to ignore the negativity. (I obviously haven’t yet evolved to that point – I’m trying though, REALLY!)
But I think the entire process of posting your thoughts anonymously on the internet brings out some of our worst manners. Ya think half the ugly stuff said here would be said in a face-to-face “group therapy” situation?
(I sometimes regard this as just that – a bitchy group therapy meeting)
Furthermore, you have the ENJOYMENT issue. When we faulty humans find a forum where we can let out steam, some of us get a little tipsy from a feeling of empowerment. It is a way of dealing with some of the pent up crap you might face in your “real” world – your job, your boss, your bills, your troubles, any frustrations. So some will come to greatly enjoy the jolt that accompanies hitting the “return” key on a blurt of ill mannered “I’ll tell them!” snipes.
It’s internet graffiti. It’s garbage. And, as revealed w/ the Journey parallel, it’s everywhere. It’s unfortunate.
Wherever there’s a painting there’ll be a critic. Wherever there’s a recipe there’ll be a critic. Wherever there’s ANYTHING there’ll be an argument against it.
Again, I’m no saint in this. I try to be tolerant, but often succumb to stooping to a low level…I just get flabbergasted by what I consider rudeness, but my retaliations might step over the line on occasion – and I end up becoming SIMILAR to those who irritate me (boy THAT pisses me off too!). I’ve rarely tried to hijack a topic. I consider myself more of a backlasher. (Then again, I suppose that’s what EVERYONE fighting on both sides for & against Israel thinks: THEY STARTED IT FIRST!”)
Since I’m on a boring rant, I’ll also bring up something that someone – was it Yogi? – touched on: this MIGHT be a less interesting place to visit WITHOUT all the combat…
(Can you imagine what trying to run A COUNTRY must be like??? We can’t even have a civil bulletin board about a band who will be forgotten exactly 15 minutes after the last one reading this drops dead!)