LordofDaRing wrote:Chuck tends to waffle back and forth about this. One day he can be reflective and even sentimental and say,"You know, a reunion would be cool, we should do it before the chance is lost." On another day he might be feeling bitter about the past and say, "I never want to see that guy again, he fucked us all over, blah blah blah . . ." it just depends on when you catch him. You know, he and Dennis have more history than anybody else involved, it's extremely complicated.
I hope all is well.
Sterling
Well uncomplicate it for us Sterling, I love a good gossip...
I don't really have any gossip to share. The issues between those guys are the same ones that are between most guys who started out friends and then had a successful band together. When a band is failing everyone is equal, because everyone is a failure. When that band succeeds, inevitably some people succeed more than others in terms of public perception, in terms of influence over the course of the band, and in terms of financial rewards. Dennis and Chuck started this thing with John, but of course Dennis ended up making far more money and receiving far more public accolades than those guys because he's a lead singer, lead instrumentalist and principal songwriter. That never, ever fails to breed jealousy and discontent, and it never ever fails that the person who has the most influence uses that influence to steer the course of the band more than the others. That of course leads to more jealousy and more discontent. (By the way, this still goes on in the band today; don't think for a second it doesn't).
In this case Chuck and John and Dennis were once very good friends, so you have to factor in that thin line between love and hate as well. There's no relationship quite so bitter as one that used to be friendly and then soured. It really is like a failed marriage, how do you talk about that person after the fact? But you married them, right? Had kids them, built a life with them, went home to them every night and so on. Looking back after it's failed, it's just human nature to forget the best things about that person and build up their negatives in your mind. It's that stupid human trick that we do in order to justify ourselves to ourselves, and we all do it. So Chuck can sometimes look back and think of the good times they had and remember that with some fondness, but at the same time he can turn on a dime and really get angry about certain things, too. After EOTC he and John basically said, "Don't bother calling us unless Tommy's going to be back." The band at that time was just Dennis, JY and Glen. The brothers just had too many old issues, with Dennis in particular. As I always say, it's sad how that business twists people and turns all those positives into negatives. The Styx thing is just sad. That's the only word I can use.
I hope all is well.
Sterling