StyxGuy wrote:
*sigh*
I try to keep out of this stuff but I feel like I've got to say something after years of seeing this.
Suite - You (and others) have ruined this forum for me, especially recently...
This whole "bathwater drinker" and "$tyx" commentary you've used for FAR TOO LONG is absolute garbage and only continues to drag down conversations which spiral out of control into personal attacks on one another...
The vitriol is palpable and disgusting.
There are times when I come on here hoping a new thread is going to be fun and engaging, then you come along with your nuclear bomb of conversation derailment to attack other forum members (and no I'm not forgetting that others here have done this too)
I'm done with seeing people who all apparently enjoy the same band be at each others throats.... EVERY FUCKING TIME it blows up, then seems like things have calmed down, and then once again the nasty garbage starts to spew.
I'm a "Dennis" guy... I do think he got a raw deal in 1999 (there's some extended conversation for that, and dependent on *IF* a few things are assumed to be fact) - But how does that give me a right to attack someone who disagrees with that?
I'm at minimum taking a break from here... considering deleting my account too...
When I was a young girl and even into my adulthood, I loved Styx the band. Not Styx the individuals. I would have been hard pressed to choose a favorite member. But like most fans it would have been a tossup between Tommy and Dennis. Thankfully I never had to make that choice.
Even after Tommy quit and the band went on hiatus, I still had their solo albums to keep my interest. I admit openly that Desert Moon is hands down my favorite. Especially the video.
However none of these records could compete with the thought of a new Styx album.
It would be six years before another one was released and this time without Tommy.
I enjoyed EOTC and especially SMTW but it wasn’t the same because Tommy wasn’t there.
I never gave a thought to KWH as anything more than a new Styx record and it’s release never made me feel betrayed because I was a fan who appreciated their variety of music and the different singers. I never thought oh my where is the prog?
The tours in 1996-97 were incredible and I was able to relive the magic of them together once again.
I looked forward to new music from the band. When I first heard BNW I listened like that teen age girl. But something was missing. There are some very good songs on the album but the cohesive quality was gone. I had no idea why.
The next thing I heard was Dennis had retired and was not touring and that he had passed the baton to Tommy. I was very disappointed. Gone was a big piece of my youth.
I did not have any ill feelings toward anyone and chalked it up to the passage of time.
I attended one of the new Styx 2.0 concerts hopeful of getting the feelings I had in 96 and 97.
Sorry to say it, it wasn’t there anymore. Still, I didn’t have anger or frustration toward any of the new members it just wasn’t the same. I did not want a new Styx I wanted the old one.
Only later did I begin reading about Dennis’s forced departure. The more I heard and read and discussed with other Styx fans the angrier I became. And not because Dennis was replaced, it was how. I wanted my band back. Then BTM aired and it was awful and disturbing. We fans have an idealized vision of our favorite musicians and that show destroyed everything. Who to believe? Frankly I did not want to choose sides.
Welcome to the Grand Illusion. Don’t be fooled by the radio, tv.
I guess my part on this forum has been mostly passive until recently. I went back to see what I had posted to cause you to place this on one of my posts. I went way back. I was absent in so many of these ongoing disputes which you reference while some others were constantly using hate as a motivation. They encouraged the vitriol of which you speak.
There is NO doubt who the biggest transgressor regarding vile language and out sized irrational hate is.
My frustration has been the repetition of lies regarding Dennis’s dismissal coupled with 20 years of character assassination in an attempt to cover up the truth. BATHWATER DRINKERS was hung around Dennis neck for years on this forum. It was a lightning rod and rallying cry who blamed Dennis. When all he said was to be careful in what to believe when it comes to your idols. I think he meant himself as well.
History has clearly proved him correct.
Remember I had to be challenged to even give my opinion on COTC and The Mission.
I want one last tour with Dennis to say goodbye to my favorite band and in no small way to my youth. I am not a minority.