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* So, I spend a lot of time reading here.
* I spend a lot of time keeping up with favorite bands from my youth (Beatles, McCartney, Journey, Styx, Cheap Trick, etc.)
* I know a TON about these bands and their history
* I eagerly await their new material and buy it right off

I'm fourty-friggin'-five here.
Is anybody else here asking themselves this:

"Shouldn't I have outgrown this stuff by now? Why do I care? Shouldn't I be doing my banking or something?"

and...

DISCUSS!

"You don't stop rocking and rolling because you get old. You get old because you stop rocking and rolling" Don Henley...I think.

brywool wrote:* So, I spend a lot of time reading here.
* I spend a lot of time keeping up with favorite bands from my youth (Beatles, McCartney, Journey, Styx, * Cheap Trick, etc.)
* I know a TON about these bands and their history
* I eagerly await their new material and buy it right off

I'm fourty-friggin'-five here.
Is anybody else here asking themselves this:

"Shouldn't I have outgrown this stuff by now? Why do I care? Shouldn't I be doing my banking or something?"

and...

DISCUSS!

nolippin wrote:"You don't stop rocking and rolling because you get old. You get old because you stop rocking and rolling" Don Henley...I think.

brywool wrote:* So, I spend a lot of time reading here.
* I spend a lot of time keeping up with favorite bands from my youth (Beatles, McCartney, Journey, Styx, * Cheap Trick, etc.)
* I know a TON about these bands and their history
* I eagerly await their new material and buy it right off

I'm fourty-friggin'-five here.
Is anybody else here asking themselves this:

"Shouldn't I have outgrown this stuff by now? Why do I care? Shouldn't I be doing my banking or something?"

and...

DISCUSS!

YOU ARE NOT OLD!!!!! And Yes...do your Banking so you can get some money for a new CD!!!

nolippin wrote:"You don't stop rocking and rolling because you get old. You get old because you stop rocking and rolling" Don Henley...I think.

Ha, ha...good one.

I get ragged on a lot by the guys I work with because I do so much traveling to see bands.

music = blood.

can't live without it

I'm forty-friggin-five as well. I'm here for a sliver of escape from the day to day stress of being a parent of three, running an organization, being married for 21 years to the same wife (not that that's a bad thing), having to listen to shit for music on the radio (especially when with the kids ... although I must say they are slowly converting to "my kind of music"), and the nausiating alternative choices in media.

I first started coming here because I just wanted to hear what's happening with the bands that got me through my childhood and young adult life. A huge music fan since a tot, they were important parts of my life and continue as a vehicle back to the "good ol' days".

I now come here mostly for pure entertainment value. Deano's rants are priceless. Many of the rest of the regulars provide some good ones too. Growing up watching As the World Turns with my grandma and later with my wife (during lunch in college), I guess this fills that void. Much better soap opera here by the way.

Journey on!

Interesting Henley quote. I actually play in a band on weekends, so I think he's right to some extent, but seriously- I cannot picture my parents at my age doing this stuff. I think a lot of people would liken it to Joe Dirt or something ("Def Leppard Rules!!!"). You know what I mean?

"why do you still care about Journey?"

hoagiepete wrote:I'm forty-friggin-five as well. I'm here for a sliver of escape from the day to day stress of being a parent of three, running an organization, being married for 21 years to the same wife (not that that's a bad thing), having to listen to shit for music on the radio (especially when with the kids ... although I must say they are slowly converting to "my kind of music"), and the nausiating alternative choices in media.

I first started coming here because I just wanted to hear what's happening with the bands that got me through my childhood and young adult life. A huge music fan since a tot, they were important parts of my life and continue as a vehicle back to the "good ol' days".

I now come here mostly for pure entertainment value. Deano's rants are priceless. Many of the rest of the regulars provide some good ones too. Growing up watching As the World Turns with my grandma and later with my wife (during lunch in college), I guess this fills that void. Much better soap opera here by the way.

Journey on!

this makes a lot of sense!

brywool wrote:
"Shouldn't I have outgrown this stuff by now? Why do I care? Shouldn't I be doing my banking or something?"

Nope, not here.
When I need to tend to family matters or do domestic duties, I do.
When I have time to cyber surf, I do.

The Internet as far as musical matter has been an absolute dream come true for me.

Lady Luck wrote:

nolippin wrote:"You don't stop rocking and rolling because you get old. You get old because you stop rocking and rolling" Don Henley...I think.

Ha, ha...good one.

I get ragged on a lot by the guys I work with because I do so much traveling to see bands.

ahhh .. you get it at work, I get it at home.
per Shawn "What ghey band are you going to see this time?" and "How broke am I going to be afterwards?"

at this point.. as long as I'm enjoying myself, who cares what other people think.

I'm 39, and my husband wants to know when I'm going to outgrow Journey or "get over '80s music." The bottom line is that I enjoy the music and the banter about it. It's a little escape from an otherwise hectic, stressful day. I don't really care what other people think of my taste in music. I get my work done, my clients are happy, and I can pay the bills. I do laundry, make dinner, and clean the house. And I went to the bank this morning.

brywool wrote:* So, I spend a lot of time reading here.
* I spend a lot of time keeping up with favorite bands from my youth (Beatles, McCartney, Journey, Styx, Cheap Trick, etc.)
* I know a TON about these bands and their history
* I eagerly await their new material and buy it right off

I'm fourty-friggin'-five here.
Is anybody else here asking themselves this:

"Shouldn't I have outgrown this stuff by now? Why do I care? Shouldn't I be doing my banking or something?"

and...

DISCUSS!

Classic music is like classic literature. Timeless. You don't outgrow the classics. You savour them and enjoy their beauty even more when you listen to and read them over & over again.
Maybe we all DO live in the past, but there is nothing wrong in liking something which is so good.
And didn't you know? 45 is the new 35.


And while the Rolling Stones are still rocking, it's ok for us in our 40's to. While there is someone older than you doing it, it's ok.

jrnychick wrote:I'm 39, and my husband wants to know when I'm going to outgrow Journey or "get over '80s music." The bottom line is that I enjoy the music and the banter about it. It's a little escape from an otherwise hectic, stressful day. I don't really care what other people think of my taste in music. I get my work done, my clients are happy, and I can pay the bills. I do laundry, make dinner, and clean the house. And I went to the bank this morning.

A video for all of us stuck in the 80s. I laughed like hell when a friend sent me this link.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dMmNcT3ouo

Yep Deb, I agree. I'm getting my work done, dropped the kids off at school this morning, talked to clients on the phone all day, gotta go home and help the wifey with supper, and still find time to have a little MR fun. If I don't, I'll go postal and that won't be good for anyone.

I'm 45 also, and am as wrapped up in music as I've ever been. My wife rags on me because I listen to Journey so much. But get in her car and 9 out of 10 times and Elvis CD is going, so what's the difference?

I've worked my butt off all my life, and I figure from now on, I'm going to do what ever the hell it is I want to do. So after responsibilities are tended to, I pretty much do.

Rick wrote:I'm 45 also, and am as wrapped up in music as I've ever been. My wife rags on me because I listen to Journey so much. But get in her car and 9 out of 10 times and Elvis CD is going, so what's the difference?

I've worked my butt off all my life, and I figure from now on, I'm going to do what ever the hell it is I want to do. So after responsibilities are tended to, I pretty much do.

... funny, That's Alright Mama is on Itunes as I read this...

brywool wrote:

Rick wrote:I'm 45 also, and am as wrapped up in music as I've ever been. My wife rags on me because I listen to Journey so much. But get in her car and 9 out of 10 times and Elvis CD is going, so what's the difference?

I've worked my butt off all my life, and I figure from now on, I'm going to do what ever the hell it is I want to do. So after responsibilities are tended to, I pretty much do.

... funny, That's Alright Mama is on Itunes as I read this...

Debbie (wife) has those two days a year where she watches Elvis DVD's and cries. I'll sit in there and watch them with her because Elvis was most definitely the shit in his day, but let me suggest watching the Escape DVD.

I'm 44 and don't plan on getting old anytime soon.....................................

Rick wrote: Elvis was most definitely the shit in his day

Well said Sir.

INDEED, Elvis was the KING!

Well....

It ain't your Grandparent's Forty-Somethings anymore...

<-----THIS is what 40 looks like, now...

Seriously...

I saw pics of both sets of my Grandparents in their 40s; they looked like they were ANCIENT!!

Rick wrote:

brywool wrote:

Rick wrote:I'm 45 also, and am as wrapped up in music as I've ever been. My wife rags on me because I listen to Journey so much. But get in her car and 9 out of 10 times and Elvis CD is going, so what's the difference?

I've worked my butt off all my life, and I figure from now on, I'm going to do what ever the hell it is I want to do. So after responsibilities are tended to, I pretty much do.

... funny, That's Alright Mama is on Itunes as I read this...

Debbie (wife) has those two days a year where she watches Elvis DVD's and cries. I'll sit in there and watch them with her because Elvis was most definitely the shit in his day, but let me suggest watching the Escape DVD.

I watch Beatle movies, like once a year and giggle. They're the coolest. Elvis movies, except the black and white ones are tough for me to sit through. "Do the Clam!"

I'm 20 in exactly one week.

I've been rocking out of the womb and will do so until I'm in the grave.

brywool wrote:

Rick wrote:

brywool wrote:

Rick wrote:I'm 45 also, and am as wrapped up in music as I've ever been. My wife rags on me because I listen to Journey so much. But get in her car and 9 out of 10 times and Elvis CD is going, so what's the difference?

I've worked my butt off all my life, and I figure from now on, I'm going to do what ever the hell it is I want to do. So after responsibilities are tended to, I pretty much do.

... funny, That's Alright Mama is on Itunes as I read this...

Debbie (wife) has those two days a year where she watches Elvis DVD's and cries. I'll sit in there and watch them with her because Elvis was most definitely the shit in his day, but let me suggest watching the Escape DVD.

I watch Beatle movies, like once a year and giggle. They're the coolest. Elvis movies, except the black and white ones are tough for me to sit through. "Do the Clam!"

She watches the movies too, but I made her a bunch of DVD's of old Elvis footage and concerts. She watches those on the anniversary of his death and his birthday. I bought her Clam Bake for Christmas one year too.

epresley wrote:Yep Deb, I agree. I'm getting my work done, dropped the kids off at school this morning, talked to clients on the phone all day, gotta go home and help the wifey with supper, and still find time to have a little MR fun. If I don't, I'll go postal and that won't be good for anyone.

your hooked!!!

well... the good news is, us melodic rockers are still probably a little younger than our musical heroes. Not by much though!!!

larryfromnextdoor wrote:

epresley wrote:Yep Deb, I agree. I'm getting my work done, dropped the kids off at school this morning, talked to clients on the phone all day, gotta go home and help the wifey with supper, and still find time to have a little MR fun. If I don't, I'll go postal and that won't be good for anyone.

your hooked!!!

LOL, me too! Music/live shows is definitely my drug of choice. I'm one of those people that find it impossible to sit still during a great rockin' song. I mean come on........try it. LOL, look at lil EM boogie down....... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCj46crcrFY

I'll never outgrow it!

I just turned 49! My body's getting old but my brain is getting younger. I never tire of music. I must have my daily fix. I guess it's my addiction. And I will not mellow with age. I still listen to loud ass bands that my wife has outgrown. She can't take the loud stuff anymore, such as Judas Priest etc. Journey and Lifehouse is about her speed (which I also like). She absolutely can't get into the progressive stuff I listen to like Porcupine Tree, Threshold and other fine new acts. Her loss!

JrnyScarab wrote:I just turned 49! My body's getting old but my brain is getting younger. I never tire of music. I must have my daily fix. I guess it's my addiction. And I will not mellow with age. I still listen to loud ass bands that my wife has outgrown. She can't take the loud stuff anymore, such as Judas Priest etc. Journey and Lifehouse is about her speed (which I also like). She absolutely can't get into the progressive stuff I listen to like Porcupine Tree, Threshold and other fine new acts. Her loss!

Porcupine Tree is the best band of the 21st Century so far.

Priorities change as one goes through the different stages of life. As a little kid, I discovered rocknroll music through older siblings. Grew up listening to pop music from a little transistor radio. Hung out at record stores (I went to the 1st Tower Records grand opening in San Francisco with my brother (Columbus Avenue?), don't remember which year, either end of ‘60s or early ‘70s. Seems adulthood comes with mature reponsibilities and the fanaticism (?) for what's happening in the biz gets pushed back. But I did have it all: lps; singles; reel-to-reel; 8 tracks; cassettes.

I kind of stopped buying music by the time cd's became the vogue, so only had a handful in my music collection, until only a few years ago that I "discovered" Steve Perry and, then, Journey. That voice and their music touched a nerve, not unlike how I felt when I was led by the hand walking inside the theater to see the Beatles in A Hard Days Night almost exactly 40 years prior.

Today's high tech, free informational system, music downloads, fan messageboards, concert dvds, all make it easy to connect/reconnect with the musical landscape. Embarking now in the 2nd half century of my life, I feel I have come full circle.