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Zan wrote:Monker wrote:Explain how the few interviews by both Tommy and Dennis where it is explained that Tommy called Dennis SEVERAL times asking about getting Styx back together, but Dennis couldn't because of Boomchild? I believe in the Dennis interview ON THIS SITE, *HE* says he told Tommy to join DY because he couldn't start the reunion, and Tommy insisted he needed the work.
And then he said (paraphrasing here, because I'm not Vicki), "It was at that point, with Tommy happily in Damn Yankees, if we were going to regroup, we should do it now."
I'm not sayin' he's the devil. I'm just sayin' the market on changing stories isn't exlcusively JY's.
SuiteMadameBlue wrote:shaka wrote:styxfanNH wrote:Or maybe it has something to do with JY needing to tour to sustain a living with STYX and he believes that Dennis was stopping him from doing so.
Hey Sterling, you're writing the book. Has JY taken care of his money or is he in the poorhouse? Personally I have a hard time believing that he needs to tour to sustain himself, his wife, or his lifestyle.
Eric
Since most of you know me, here's my take. I guess this is all just my opinion, so don't jump too hard on me![]()
With all or most musicians they are not offered health insurance like the "average" person that has a full-time job. Yes, they are offered health insurance through the record company, some music association they pay into and I think something else, can't remember. They do pay through the roof on medical expenses.
Anyway, when I had my kids, most of my hospital bills and care was paid almost 100%, except for the co-pays.
Now let's say if a musician's wife has a lot of medical problems through the years that she can't help, not cosmetic, but serious health problems, that comes out of the musicians pockets to pay. You all know how medical bills can add up.
Okay, now the music label drops the band, that's less insurance.
That's ONE reason that a certain member of the current band Styx still needs to tour. With knowing what I "heard" my heart does go out to some of these people, the ones that didn't spend their money foolishly.
When one of the kids of certain member was born, he was in the hospital longer than expected due to health problems. That was a costly bill too, I would "think".
Look at Lou Gramm for example. He's been through years of health issues, he's still touring, I don't think totally by choice, but he does have a lot of medical bills.
There's a huge article on another musician, I have to find it, but it really explains a lot. You can have all the money, but when you don't have health insurance and something happens to you or a member of your family, well then you pay through the roof.
shaka wrote:
Medical procedures are expensive enough with insurance let alone without.
You were vague about which member of Styx son spent time in the hospital. However, deductive reasoning leads me to conclude that, a. Tommy has a daughter not a son. b. JY, Chuck, and John (might be wrong about John) are childless, that the kid in question is Matthew DeYoung.
It still doesn't answer my question as to whether JY needs the dough.
Eric
styxfanNH wrote:In a recent interview, JY said that his wife has an incurable disease. He didn't go into it more than that. So I am guessing that the everyday medical expenses are fairly high.
Zan wrote:styxfanNH wrote:In a recent interview, JY said that his wife has an incurable disease. He didn't go into it more than that. So I am guessing that the everyday medical expenses are fairly high.
I don't know about anything beyond that she was sick once upon a time. But if I ever get very ill, I hope I look that good.
SuiteMadameBlue wrote:Zan wrote:styxfanNH wrote:In a recent interview, JY said that his wife has an incurable disease. He didn't go into it more than that. So I am guessing that the everyday medical expenses are fairly high.
I don't know about anything beyond that she was sick once upon a time. But if I ever get very ill, I hope I look that good.
I didn't want to post the information without something to back me up that was in print, but yes and if I'm not mistaken, those expenses are still running very high.
She does look very good.
Zan wrote:styxfanNH wrote:In a recent interview, JY said that his wife has an incurable disease. He didn't go into it more than that. So I am guessing that the everyday medical expenses are fairly high.
I don't know about anything beyond that she was sick once upon a time. But if I ever get very ill, I hope I look that good.
Zan wrote:Monker wrote:Explain how the few interviews by both Tommy and Dennis where it is explained that Tommy called Dennis SEVERAL times asking about getting Styx back together, but Dennis couldn't because of Boomchild? I believe in the Dennis interview ON THIS SITE, *HE* says he told Tommy to join DY because he couldn't start the reunion, and Tommy insisted he needed the work.
And then he said (paraphrasing here, because I'm not Vicki), "It was at that point, with Tommy happily in Damn Yankees, if we were going to regroup, we should do it now."
I'm not sayin' he's the devil. I'm just sayin' the market on changing stories isn't exlcusively JY's.
Ash wrote:Rockwriter wrote:Look at it this way: if you were 17 in 1975 when "Lady" hit, you might have had it as your first prom theme, or as your special song with your first love. So maybe in 1979 you got married to "Babe", and maybe in 1981 you had your first kid to the strains of "Best of Times". In 1991 you're older and wiser and sitting helplessly as war unfolds on your TV, wondering what the hell kind of world you're bringing up your children in, and "Show Me The Way" is there to comfort you.
Fast forward to 2004; your kid is grown now, it's just the two of you again, your 25th anniversary is coming up. Styx is coming to town, and you want to re-capture that romance, that magic, those special moments. You get your tickets. Then on the day of the show, you read an interview with JY in the morning paper . . . turns out Dennis is gone, they won't be playing any of those songs, and on top of that JY proclaims those songs, which you have held so dear for so long, "cringe-inducing". He is finding fault not only with the songs and the history that got him where he is, but by extension, with your own listening tastes and past purchasing decisions - purchasing decisions which have paid his way in life. Not a great feeling, is it?
I have said before and say it here again, JY's position on this, from a PR standpoint, is a losing position. If he wants to be bitter, fine, what do we care? But have the grace and common sense to shut up about it in public.
Sterling
Holy shit dude. You're like my new fuckin' hero man! (sorry for the profanity)... but those two paragraphs encapture everything I've been trying to say for the last 7 years. Thats amazing. Wow.... I'm in stone face awe. That was great!
You live in Nashville don't you? I live there too. I want to buy you a drink.
Rockwriter wrote:There is credit enough, and blame enough, to go around. The reason I am so disappinted in JY's current stance is because I think he's better and smarter than this, that's all. This is unbecoming of someone as smart as he is and I don't think the people around him are willing to tell him that.
I hope all is well.
Sterling
Zan wrote:Monker wrote:Explain how the few interviews by both Tommy and Dennis where it is explained that Tommy called Dennis SEVERAL times asking about getting Styx back together, but Dennis couldn't because of Boomchild? I believe in the Dennis interview ON THIS SITE, *HE* says he told Tommy to join DY because he couldn't start the reunion, and Tommy insisted he needed the work.
And then he said (paraphrasing here, because I'm not Vicki), "It was at that point, with Tommy happily in Damn Yankees, if we were going to regroup, we should do it now."
I'm not sayin' he's the devil. I'm just sayin' the market on changing stories isn't exlcusively JY's.
SuiteMadameBlue wrote:Monker wrote:Explain how the few interviews by both Tommy and Dennis where it is explained that Tommy called Dennis SEVERAL times asking about getting Styx back together, but Dennis couldn't because of Boomchild? I believe in the Dennis interview ON THIS SITE, *HE* says he told Tommy to join DY because he couldn't start the reunion, and Tommy insisted he needed the work.
I'm pretty sure I have 2 articles on this in print. I'll have to find them.
Heres just part of Andrew's interview with Dennis. I don't know if this has to do with anything in this thread or not. I'll try to find the others in my free time - LOL
What happened when Tommy left and you reformed to do 'Edge of the Century'?
In 1983 Tommy decided that he didn't like, well he didn't like a lot of things, but number 1 thing he didn't like was he was convinced he could be a solo artist on his own.
Someone was whispering in his ear. He quit the band in the middle of the '83 tour. We knew he was going to quit. When the whole thing was over at the end of '83 and the beginning of '84 Tommy had quit and James Young, John and Chuck were still in the band they wanted me to replace Tommy Shaw and to go forward immediately. I said I wouldn't do it. I said this band is these guys.
So what I did is I became a reluctant solo artist because I was not going to go back and put a new Styx together with somebody else.
My contract read that I had the ability to make a solo record for A&M so I decided I'd make a solo album and wait for Tommy to come to his senses. So I made Desert Moon.
So Tommy made his solo album and I made mine. When Tommy's record deals had run out he called up in about 1988 and wanted to talk about getting the band back together.
I thought it was a good idea but I had just signed another deal with MCA to make another solo album, my 3rd. I told him let me just record this album and get this together and we'll talk about getting this band back together. As I'm going through that process he called me up one day and said I'm antsy. Remember Tommy is the guy that wrote the song 'Too Much Time On My Hands'. Catch my drift?
Yes.
Ok. He called me and said when are we going to do this Styx thing? I said I've gotta finish this project and he said I've got this offer to from my manager to go get with Jack Blades and Ted Nugent and do some demos. I said go and do it. I'm not going to stop you from doing it. So he went and they got a record deal and off he went.
Sure.
So what happened was after it was clear to me he was now in Damn Yankees the band came back to me again, JY called and said when are we going to do this. I realized at that moment that with Tommy happily in Damn Yankees that maybe if we were ever going to do it we should do it. So we forged ahead and put the thing together with Glenn Burtnik.
In that same year or the year later Tommy actually sold back his right to the name Styx legally.
Oh really?
Why? You tell me why somebody would do that?
Signing off on it really.
I guess so isn't it? So when Damn Yankees ran its course again well we got back together again.
shaka wrote:It still doesn't answer my question as to whether JY needs the dough.
Eric
Rockwriter wrote:Zan wrote:Monker wrote:Explain how the few interviews by both Tommy and Dennis where it is explained that Tommy called Dennis SEVERAL times asking about getting Styx back together, but Dennis couldn't because of Boomchild? I believe in the Dennis interview ON THIS SITE, *HE* says he told Tommy to join DY because he couldn't start the reunion, and Tommy insisted he needed the work.
And then he said (paraphrasing here, because I'm not Vicki), "It was at that point, with Tommy happily in Damn Yankees, if we were going to regroup, we should do it now."
I'm not sayin' he's the devil. I'm just sayin' the market on changing stories isn't exlcusively JY's.
Absolutely true. All of them are guilty of a certain amount of revisionism. It's really just human nature, after all, to want to make yourself look as good as possible, and to rememeber the past in such a way as to reflect your own contribution to it in its most positive light.
Look, I'm not going to argue that Dennis is not difficult, or that there are not valid reasons why the other guys feel the way they do. That's a stupid, pointless, losing argument, quite frankly. What his detractors have to say about him - that he is difficult, demanding, arrogant, controlling - these things are almost universal and go all the way back to the Wooden Nickel era, though it seemed to get worse later.
That said, he made a huge contribution to the band, and if he did NOT posess the wilfullness and ego that he does, we wouldn't be having this conversation, because there would never have been a band called Styx that made it to the national level. His ego and forcefulness are sometimes his undoing, but they are also a great asset in the right setting, when used in the right way. That's reality. I'm not saying you have to like him as a person. I've never even met him (or JY, for that matter). I have nothing for or against either one of them as people. Everyone here has their strengths and weaknesses. The way things went has been dictated by the way their strengths and weaknesses overlap and interact. The drama is not that different from any of us and our jobs or familes, except that it becomes of public interest because they're famous.
There is credit enough, and blame enough, to go around. The reason I am so disappinted in JY's current stance is because I think he's better and smarter than this, that's all. This is unbecoming of someone as smart as he is and I don't think the people around him are willing to tell him that.
I hope all is well.
Sterling
Monker wrote:You didn't answer my question.
Reconcile what you said with what BOTH Tommy and Dennis said in public interviews, including on this very site.
StyxCollector wrote:Monker wrote:You didn't answer my question.
Reconcile what you said with what BOTH Tommy and Dennis said in public interviews, including on this very site.
This band is a walking contradiction. If you haven't figured that out by now ....
The guys have different attitudes at different times. When I interviewed TS in 1993, he was very at peace (seemingly) with his Styx legacy and his past. Fast forward to the 1999 era and up. Styx is now his legacy again, so the line goes with that.
Of the guys, for the most part, DDY I've seen both in my interviews as well as stuff I've read elsewhere, has been the most consistent in terms of what he's said. He may have emphasized different points at different times, but rarely does he contradict himself.
Then you have JY who said barely a peep until a few years ago and now is the focal point for the band in media.
Ash wrote:People like JY are usually unreceptive to critisism and surround themselves with people who will echo what they say. This includes attorneys, family and people like Zan. People who find no fault in what they have done - or are willing to forgive the faults in some that they won't forgive in others.
Ash wrote:Rockwriter wrote:There is credit enough, and blame enough, to go around. The reason I am so disappinted in JY's current stance is because I think he's better and smarter than this, that's all. This is unbecoming of someone as smart as he is and I don't think the people around him are willing to tell him that.
I hope all is well.
Sterling
People like JY are usually unreceptive to critisism and surround themselves with people who will echo what they say. This includes attorneys, family and people like Zan. People who find no fault in what they have done - or are willing to forgive the faults in some that they won't forgive in others.
It is that kind of mindless intellectual dishonesty which contributes more to the dysfunction of the situation that it does to it's resolution.
Truthfully - if I worked for JY (thank god I don't), I'd absolutely be a yes-man for him - especially if my livelyhood depended on it. I guess that it's good I don't because I wouldn't be able to do that.
Monker wrote:shaka wrote:It still doesn't answer my question as to whether JY needs the dough.
Eric
There was an article posted on this very forum where JY said he has invested very conservatively and has plenty of money stashed away in bonds. He doesn't believe in high risk investments...
So, my GUESS is that he has plenty tucked away in investments.
Rockwriter wrote:Zan wrote:Monker wrote:Explain how the few interviews by both Tommy and Dennis where it is explained that Tommy called Dennis SEVERAL times asking about getting Styx back together, but Dennis couldn't because of Boomchild? I believe in the Dennis interview ON THIS SITE, *HE* says he told Tommy to join DY because he couldn't start the reunion, and Tommy insisted he needed the work.
And then he said (paraphrasing here, because I'm not Vicki), "It was at that point, with Tommy happily in Damn Yankees, if we were going to regroup, we should do it now."
I'm not sayin' he's the devil. I'm just sayin' the market on changing stories isn't exlcusively JY's.
Absolutely true. All of them are guilty of a certain amount of revisionism. It's really just human nature, after all, to want to make yourself look as good as possible, and to rememeber the past in such a way as to reflect your own contribution to it in its most positive light.
Look, I'm not going to argue that Dennis is not difficult, or that there are not valid reasons why the other guys feel the way they do. That's a stupid, pointless, losing argument, quite frankly. What his detractors have to say about him - that he is difficult, demanding, arrogant, controlling - these things are almost universal and go all the way back to the Wooden Nickel era, though it seemed to get worse later.
That said, he made a huge contribution to the band, and if he did NOT posess the wilfullness and ego that he does, we wouldn't be having this conversation, because there would never have been a band called Styx that made it to the national level. His ego and forcefulness are sometimes his undoing, but they are also a great asset in the right setting, when used in the right way. That's reality. I'm not saying you have to like him as a person. I've never even met him (or JY, for that matter). I have nothing for or against either one of them as people. Everyone here has their strengths and weaknesses. The way things went has been dictated by the way their strengths and weaknesses overlap and interact. The drama is not that different from any of us and our jobs or familes, except that it becomes of public interest because they're famous.
There is credit enough, and blame enough, to go around. The reason I am so disappinted in JY's current stance is because I think he's better and smarter than this, that's all. This is unbecoming of someone as smart as he is and I don't think the people around him are willing to tell him that.
I hope all is well.
Sterling
Monker wrote:Zan wrote:Monker wrote:Explain how the few interviews by both Tommy and Dennis where it is explained that Tommy called Dennis SEVERAL times asking about getting Styx back together, but Dennis couldn't because of Boomchild? I believe in the Dennis interview ON THIS SITE, *HE* says he told Tommy to join DY because he couldn't start the reunion, and Tommy insisted he needed the work.
And then he said (paraphrasing here, because I'm not Vicki), "It was at that point, with Tommy happily in Damn Yankees, if we were going to regroup, we should do it now."
I'm not sayin' he's the devil. I'm just sayin' the market on changing stories isn't exlcusively JY's.
BINGO! And, MY point is that DeYoung AND Tommy told basicaly the SAME story. Now Sterling come about and says something completely different, it seems. So, IMO, he needs to explain that contradiction, or he really seems to be slanting things the way he wants it to be, instead of telling things with a non-biased attitude.
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