Hey Folks

[Perrydise]

Dean and Lula,

My deepest sympathies are with you both. Trevor will always be with you, forever in your hearts and Wyatt will carry his spirit on. I am so deeply sorry, my heart aches for both of you.

[larryfromnextdoor]

so sorry for this terrible news... you 2 have become online friends to me ... i wish i could develop some words of stregnth and encouragment, we are with you in thoughts..

[mistiejourney]

Need to come in here and make an announcement.

Our son Trevor passed away today due to heart failure. This really hurts. I think we are both in shock, and frankly, I don't know what to do, where to turn, same with Lula.

The reason for this posting is to say thank you to all who have been so kind with gifts and prayers in the past, and we would like to say thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

Melodicrock has been a wealth of friendship, despite some ups and downs, but we know there are a lot of good quality people here and we would like to show you are appreciation.

Again, Both Lula and I as well as Trevor, thank you all for your prayers and support.

Dean, Lula and Trevor.

Oh Dean, I am so shocked and saddened to hear the news about Trevor. He's had a lot of prayers going out for him and tonight we continue to pray that you and Lula are given the strength to deal with your loss. Trevor was very loved in this life and you will see him again in the next, I truly believe that. My heart and my prayers go out to the three of you. {{{{{}}}}}}

[Greg]

Dean and Lula,

My prayers and thoughts are with you this evening. I just now heard the news and it saddens me to hear the news of your son's passing. I realize that there are no words that can truly comfort the both of you, but at least take from this and know that you have friends all across the country and world who are praying for you and thinking of you and Lula right now. Although we have yet to meet in person, I do send my love, thoughts, and tears to you both.

[SteveForever]

This is very sad news.
You are good parents, he knew your love I'm sure.

[belar]

Oh, Dean and Lula, I am so sorry to hear about this. We are all here for you and you'll be in our thoughts and prayers.

[acceber]

Dean and Lula, I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. You and your families are in my prayers

[piecesofeight]

You never know what you are going to read, hear, or see when you check on the computer or turn on the tv.
My heart sank as I read this..........
No words will help.
It is very cool that you have so many people from all over who believe in prayer and are praying for you, because that I believe is the best thing anyone can do for anyone.
May prayers and peace fine their ways to you.
There is a purpose to all of this, even if we don't understand all the time.
There was purpose for Trevor's brief life and I hope someday it comes to true light.

[Crazy4Ross]

Dean and Lula,

I am so sorry for the loss of your son Trevor. I can only imagine the aching and heavy hearts you have right now. I wish there was something I could say to comfort you but I have no words.

Please know that your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless You All.

Sincerely,

Barb

[xflajrnylvr]

Deano

We are so sorry to hear the sad news. Our prayers and thoughtsd are with you and Lula

[Rhiannon]

From Liam:

I'm really sorry to hear this, my thoughts and prayers are with you both, and if you all need anything let me know and I'll PM you my number.

[Rick]

Debbie and I send our love and sympathy to you and your family.

God bless all of you, and may his strength help you through this difficult time.

Love,

Rick and Debbie.

[inaweofschon]

The prayers of my family are with you Deano and Lula.

[Wildfire]

My heart is so sad for your loss. There is no comfort and no words seem right. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Big hugs to you and Lula.

[tammy]

oh, god, my heart is just breaking for you & Lu...I'm so, so sorry to hear this - I'm crying...there are just no words. I just send my love with everyone here...a huge embrace of comfort.

[Maui Tom]

Much Aloha to all of you...

[Adikeo]

There is nothing in this world worse than the loss of a child. I know there is nothing that can be said to take away that loss but please know there are many here who are praying for you to be comforted as only God can comfort you and that you have friends here who care about you both. Do not hesitate to ask for anything you might need. My deepest condolences.

[tj]

So sorry to hear of your loss. I can't begin to imagine your pain. I pray that God will comfort you and your's.

[Tom Jrnyfn]

I'm sorry you guys. You both are strong people..Hang in there.

[Natalie]

Dean and Lula,

There is nothing I can say that hasn't already been said. I am so sorry for the two of you. I will pray for you.

[(Crazy)Dulce Lady]

I'm so sorry.

I love you, Lula, Dean, Wyatt and angel Trevor.

[AR]

A few of us on The Annex were kicking around doing something for Dean, Lula, and Wyatt. Ideas ranged from seeing if we could donate something to the American Heart Association, the organization that specializes in the Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome, or perhaps seeing about helping out with the family's medical and funeral expenses. To be honest we're not sure what to do.

While I'm sure our little site would do something appropriate, it was suggested that we go to the wider audience here at melodicrock and see if we all could help in some way. I'm thinking that is a good idea.

Would anyone here be interested in taking the lead in organizing something? It would especially help if someone close to Dean and Lula could find out what their wishes are. I know it's too early to contact them with the immense grief they are assuredly going through, but as a community a gesture of support seems like the right thing to do.

Thanks for reading.

Ed

[bluejeangirl76]

Oh my god. I can't even begin to tell you both how sorry I am.

There are just never any words that seem right.
My thought and prayers are with your family. Stay strong.

[Salmacis99]

Hey Deano-
My sincerest condolences on your loss. Take strength from your friends and family and hang in there as best as you can. I'm not a praying man, but tonight I'll offer up a few words to the powers that be for you and your family. I hope that together you all can manage to weather this very difficult time.

One further thing Deano- if you happen to get any cruel comments on this or any other forum, don't get angry at them. Pity them. Anyone demented enough to do that because of 'feuding' on these boards (which in the grand scheme of life means nothing) is sick and already in their own hell. Ignore them and do what you need to do.

Again, my condolences and my best wishes for you and your family.

[mistiejourney]

A few of us on The Annex were kicking around doing something for Dean, Lula, and Wyatt. Ideas ranged from seeing if we could donate something to the American Heart Association, the organization that specializes in the Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome, or perhaps seeing about helping out with the family's medical and funeral expenses. To be honest we're not sure what to do.

While I'm sure our little site would do something appropriate, it was suggested that we go to the wider audience here at melodicrock and see if we all could help in some way. I'm thinking that is a good idea.

Would anyone here be interested in taking the lead in organizing something? It would especially help if someone close to Dean and Lula could find out what their wishes are. I know it's too early to contact them with the immense grief they are assuredly going through, but as a community a gesture of support seems like the right thing to do.

Thanks for reading.

Ed

That's a great idea, Ed.

[WalrusOct9]

Wow...There aren't really good enough words to put here, are there?

My sincere condolences to both of you.

[strangegrey]

Deano & Lula,
I'm *so* sorry to hear the horrible news about Trevor.
This is not something any parent should ever have to go through and my heart goes out to you guys.
Trevor (and your entire family) will be in my prayers.

-Frank

[Nath]

Dean and Lula,

I don't know you personally. There's nothing worse than loosing a child. You must be strong for Wyatt and your family. My thoughts are with you.

Nath

[heardonthestreet]

That is so sad!

[Andrew]

While I'm sure our little site would do something appropriate, it was suggested that we go to the wider audience here at melodicrock and see if we all could help in some way. I'm thinking that is a good idea.

Absolutely. I'm a little out of whack here without my main PC and other problems, but I'd definitely like to help organize this ASAP. AR - lead the charge in my absence will you and keep me posted. I fully support any ideas and all efforts.