Boomchild wrote:masque wrote:so why is it a subject of constant debate and discussion on here that DDY and tommy and JY may not be the best of friends? they didn't grow up together.....they were brought together through business.
Well the most recent round stems from the discussion\debate over a reunion with DDY. It's true that they were brought together by a business. With the exception of DDY, JP and CP who grew up in the same neighborhood. I don't think there is a debate that these guys weren't good friends outside of the business. It seems to me that they didn't hang out together outside of working together. Your right that this scenario is not exclusive to them. This situation occurs with many bands. From my point of view, it doesn't seem that these guys need to be together anymore to do what they enjoy and make a good living at it. JY and TS made their decision to part with DDY and I haven't seen anything that indicates that they want to change. It's been said here many, many times that we should be happy that we can still see these guys perform in any capacity.
100% correct. how many of people on this board have ever been divorced? how many people do you know that got divorced? I'm sure for those of us that actually went through a divorce know all too well that that the inner workings of a marriage are quite different than what your family or friends see.
I have seen friends get divorced and I just couldn't understand why.....and then you have a few conversations about their private lives and you suddenly understand much better.
to me, a band, or styx in particular, was basically an arranged marriage.....or at least the union of DDY, TS and JY. therefore, once it went sour tree isn't a great deal of "lifelong love" to hold it together. and while it makes sense to all of us, or most of us that we want to see them do one more tour, or record one more album together, because it "just makes sense" or they need to aside "their petty differences" then I ask this question; how many of you would be willing to go hang out with your X spouse at Xmas with the x-in laws? sometimes, there is just too much water under the bridge.
and much like a marriage that stays together because of the kids or money, I'm sure styx stayed together at times because of the money. But once the final split took place, they have apparently all figured out a way to make a sufficient living enough to not be willing to jump in bed again and that's not surprising.
I still think there is about a 30% chance that there will be at least one last short tour or a couple of farewell shows or something like that. I dont think the chance is zero.....but far from likely.