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Ash wrote:I'm assuming you're referring to my comment since I'm the one who mentioned sitting behind a computer. If I'm wrong, I'll purge this from the collective record.
Abitaman wrote:For the record, I must say I support BOTH camps, and buy music from both. Love DDY's the music of Styx, and Styx' last two studio cds C and BBT.-ERIC
Zan wrote:Ash wrote:I'm assuming you're referring to my comment since I'm the one who mentioned sitting behind a computer. If I'm wrong, I'll purge this from the collective record.
Ah...what was the question again?
If you're asking me if I think you hide behind your computer, then no. Anything else, I'm not sure anymore. LOL
Ash wrote:You guys need to take a chill pill.... seriously.
If you like the place -- stay and post... if you don't -- then leave. Nobody is holding a gun to your head. Stop taking forums, and yourselves, so seriously.
It's a forum... people will say things you agree with. People will say things you disagree with.
I had to learn how to take my lumps and read things I didn't agree with - and you can too...
Anytime the forum becomes the topic - it's usually over ego and not over content. Just get over yourselves. This is supposed to be recreation, not bullshit.
DeeJaySTYX wrote:I honestly think when people make negative comments about DDY or the current Styx lineup, they should not be taken seriously...This is a fan forum for Styx, Past and Present, and you should learn to take negative comments with a grain of Salt...
Eric (Abitaman), I'm with you on this one...If both camps provide me with good music (as they did) then they both get my support..
DarrenUK wrote:Maybe the Steve Perry board should have DDY added to it then the 2 ex singers who tried to dictate everything could be together..........i will ask Andrew if this is possible then the DDY fans could go there and leave this board to the fans of STYX
Zan wrote:Hmmm...If you don't like it, there's the door. I've heard THAT before! LOL (flashbacks of my mentally abusive mariage for a second - thanks for hanging in there with me).
Well, to my knowledge, there is no board that favors Styx over DDY, unless you're talking about Styxworld, which has little activity because of the membership thing...Plus, I personally (speaking only for myself) don't really know many people on that forum, as they came into the picture much later than my core group. Most "Styx" forums I visit talk about other stuff more than Styx - and when Styx is discussed, it's ticket info, new releases, Tommy notes, Dennis notes, show reviews, questions about labels or merchandise, etc. The collective Styx opinion part of it wore out when we lost the trolls.
Oh wait - when you said "favors Styx over DDY," did you mean a place where Styx wasn't getting slammed everyday on a regular basis by the same 4 people? In that case, there's plenty. It's a marvel, indeed. You should check it out sometime. It can be done.
This is the only Styx board I know of that still lingers in what was and likes to kick dirt in each other's faces - and I have seen unwarranted attacks from both sides, albeit the "facts" posted are usually from the DeYoung camp in the name of "defending" him. I will give credit for there being little name-calling, however. But still. Ash made a great point earlier (no, really - he did) that this stone throwing out of boredom or just to stir the pot is a waste of time. And knowing that we're not as bad as we were 6 years ago might SEEM like it should come as a great relief to me, but somehow, it still seems...lame.
If it applies to you, then take it or leave it, if it doesn't apply to you then just leave it. Contrary to what some of you might be thinking, I am not upset or angry at all - just observing something I find troubling that seems to be widely accepted and rationalized in this forum.
Furthermore, I apologize, Ash, for misunderstanding where you were going with the computer internet/opinionated world we spend time in. In the past, and in not-so-recent past, I've seen a LOT of people get really brave online - then in person, they cower like a wet kitten. Even though I was off base about your point, Ash, I still draw some parallels in that from a computer screen, we tend to dwell too much on insignificant stuff a lot longer and in more detail than we would otherwise. It's still not an excuse to contradict yourself on a regular basis or to be a flaming jerkoid (not calling anyone here a jerkoid, btw). You can hang out in a pub or bar, or out with your friends and talk shit all night - its the same thing, but have you ever had a friend or buddy who just insisted on telling the same story over & over, even after you've reminded him that he's doing so? What about the friend who says one thing and does the other on a regular basis? or the girl who gossips/casts judgements about everyone else, but turns around and does the same things herself? (Ash, are we agreeing or disagreeing? I can rarely tell except for that one time in the political topic last week. lol)
In these instances, sometimes we might say "Hey, that story's getting a little old," or "way to be consistant, bonehead." And sometimes we end up having to walk away from these friends because it just gets tiresome listening to/witnessing it. Sometimes, the friend will genuinely want to hear the truth, and sometimes, they'll say "go hang out elsewhere."
This is a "take what you want and leave the rest" life, people. All some of us are asking for is that some of you play fair. You don't have to listen or care. We do have the right to leave, that is true, but some of us like it here and would like to continue enjoying it here without being reminded everyday of the pseudo war still being fought by those who refuse to let go. Have at it.
One more thing - this is STYX board, not a DDY board or classic Styx board. If you want a haven for the DeYoungian posse to rally, then perhaps it is you who are the ones who should find that haven, not the Styx supporters. Oh wait - but this is a Styx board, not a new Styx board. Gosh, I guess we should be respectful of ALL the fans, not just the ones we agree with. Like, stop posting slanted facts and half-truths, for starters. And stop creating turmoil where there is none, for godsake.
And Ash, if you'll click my link below, you'll see that at least one of the members of my household is indeed curing cancer.![]()
And he thinks we're ALL nuts.
AnnieOprah wrote:This whole thread is pretty ironic coming from someone who has never been bashful in her constant slamming of one Dennis DeYoung in a very sarcastic, passive aggressive manner...
Personally, I couldn't give a flying flip about Dennis' new album, tour, setlist, wardrobe, wife's new boob lift, etc. I know many of you feel the same about the new Styx.
SuiteMadameBlue wrote:Zan wrote:Personally, I couldn't give a flying flip about Dennis' new album, tour, setlist, wardrobe, wife's new boob lift, etc. I know many of you feel the same about the new Styx.
Um, I do post about Styx too and the members of Styx on here, past and present.
I thought some people like when I post about Dennis and Styx information. I was just having fun with some of the posts. I guess if you don't like to see what I post, read the heading and then don't read it if it doesn't interest you. That's all I can tell you. I read everything, but that's just me.
Most of the people on here aren't members of the Yahoo groups, Dennis groups or other Styx groups. Also people on here don't visit Dennis', Tommy's, Todd's, Glen's, Chuck's or the Styx websites. So I try to put all the information I can find on here. The same with articles or pictures floating around.
From now on I'll (TRY) leave my smart ass or funny comments off of the information I post.
Most of the time I'm just trying to be funny. I didn't think people were that offended. Yikes! I guess I'll just giggle by myself. I've seen some funny comments on here by other people.
I personally do care about everyone's new album, Dennis, Styx, Glen, Shaw/Blades. I'm either given them or I do purchase all of them.
I also care about the set lists with all the line ups. I LOVE to know what they're playing in concert. When I hear that Tommy is singing "Boat on the River" I crave to see them live, or even "Lights". I love to post the set lists of concerts that I've seen too.
With the wardrobe, I just think it's fun to talk about. Just look at the avatars I put up - LOL
Zan wrote:
And for "Annie," I have never denied being harsh on Dennis in the PAST. [/color][/b]
Give it a rest.... ALLLLL of you!! You take music waayyyyy waaayyy to serious.
Some of you are just as bad as the critics who slam Styx and its members every chance they get.
Wanna know why Styx is not in the Rock and Roll Hall of fame???????
Go into your bathroom, find the sink, then look up about two feet from that sink.
Whatever you see looking back at you might be the reason that the band Styx doesnt have a permanant home for all music lovers to admire in the State of Ohio.
AnnieOprah wrote:Zan wrote:
And for "Annie," I have never denied being harsh on Dennis in the PAST. [/color][/b]
Would the PAST be your start of this thread when you referred to Dennis as a hypocrite? I believe the comment was, "Don't be a hypocrite like your hero is"
So, maybe its time for YOU to start setting the example here.
Zan wrote:AnnieOprah wrote:Zan wrote:
And for "Annie," I have never denied being harsh on Dennis in the PAST. [/color][/b]
Would the PAST be your start of this thread when you referred to Dennis as a hypocrite? I believe the comment was, "Don't be a hypocrite like your hero is"
So, maybe its time for YOU to start setting the example here.
LOL - oh, wouldn't it just be so easy...
To quote:
coming from someone who has never been bashful in her constant slamming of "one Dennis DeYoung" (a phrase I've also seen quite a bit in days past) in a very sarcastic, passive aggressive manner...
You'd make a lousy lawyer, dude.
Nice use of the phrase "passive-aggressive," by the way. Would have been even cooler if you didn't lift it right out of Ash's post.
yogi wrote:Give it a rest.... ALLLLL of you!! You take music waayyyyy waaayyy to serious.
Some of you are just as bad as the critics who slam Styx and its members every chance they get.
Wanna know why Styx is not in the Rock and Roll Hall of fame???????
Go into your bathroom, find the sink, then look up about two feet from that sink.
Whatever you see looking back at you might be the reason that the band Styx doesnt have a permanant home for all music lovers to admire in the State of Ohio.
As have I. Please note that I'm not "offended." I just think it's crap, and it's getting old. Maybe you could "try to be funny" in the other direction once in awhile. It might seem "funnier" that way. lol
That's the gist you got out of the entire post? That you should stop posting information that I personally don't care about? lol
wow.
You're getting warmer. How about - just posting ALL the information, not JUST the information that paints the picture you want to paint? SUCH AS - I think it's great that Dennis sells out concerts. I really do. Just because I'm not at them, doesn't mean I'm not happy for the guy. But to post a slew of "ANOTHER DDY show SOLD OUT" follwed by "Styx's shitty sales numbers" is not even half the story, and you know it.
You make a point not to post the facts about DDY's Nashville gig, where the place was half empty, and the seats were "buy one, get one free." Where were your stats then? What about the shows Styx sells out? Where are those stats? If you're really here to spread the news, then spread the news, not just the news that backs your agenda. That was my point.
What ???? All I saw was the toothpaste that the kids left on the mirror after their toothpaste fight (2 tubes). Now I have to go clean my bathrooms. UGH
AnnieOprah wrote:Not sure why you like to spew such venom. Does it make you feel better?
SuiteMadameBlue wrote:I just can't be funny in the other direction, not good, can't budge.![]()
I can't take the thunder away from Darren and ChicagoStyx![]()
But I love just posting just the things that make me happy !! LOL Of course I know it's half the story, I think most of the people on here know that too. They sure let me know in the PM's !!
I won't post the stats anymore for either party. We'll all just go and enjoy the concerts. All the concerts !!
I'll play nice, but I'm still going to post my opinions, I just won't get too nasty anymore. Okay, I'll try not to !
Zan wrote:AnnieOprah wrote:Not sure why you like to spew such venom. Does it make you feel better?
I love these internet buzzwords like "venom," "passive-aggressive," "hate," "ironic," and "spew." I especially like "spew." Mostly because it's such a cute way of saying "yak." OK, so I like "yak" too. Is there a troll convention that you all go to learn this stuff? I swear you all have the same rap. Or have I been talking to Sybil again?
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